Wednesday 4 March 2015

How to keep your calm when you have an annoying friend:

Everyone of us has a friend who is just freaking annoying and we can't even do anything about it, really. I can tell you, based on experience, that having a friend who is annoying is unbelievably annoying.


Annoying is just the right word to describe this friend of mine.

It is said that it is human natures want for other people to think well of us and it is indeed we are often called up to put our best foot forward and highlighting our accomplishments and character traits in job interviews and on first dates. 

Based on experience, this particular friend always asks the 4 Ws and 1 H, I think you guys know what I mean by this right? If you guys don't know what it is, the 4 Ws mean: When, Why, What and Where. The 1 H is How. This particular friend of mine is literally like a freaking detective every time I tell her my kwentos(its when I tell her something about what had happened to me when I'm with different people). This always happens either when not with her, I'm with different people and/or I have heard it from just around. 

She thinks that I am freaking know-it-all. 

I just learn to go with the flow with her. This is my advice to all of you, if you have an annoying friend, y'all go with the flow. If you guys have had enough of your friends shit, you go freaking tell them whatever is in your mind, my friend. It seems that your friendship is on the line, let me tell you, it is, but sometimes true friends tell their friends what they don't like about this particular friend. 

I'm such a weirdo sometimes, because I'm telling you guys that you'll be telling annoying friends what the fuck is up with them I haven't even told my friend what bothered me. 

But I'm being honest here, go tell them if you do care about your friend. 

xxBella